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Pleasure Marriage Tips : Stay Away From These 8 Characters Which are Abhorred By The Husbands

Posted by Hilyat Hasan - -

The main point to create a pleasure marriage is the existence of mutual love and affection between husband and wife. The husband will respect and give every love and affection to the wife, if his wife also do the same thing on him.

In order to avoid of losing the love and respect from the husband, the wife have to be more familiar and keep away several characters abhorred by their husbands. Shabah Sa’id in his book entitled Az-zaujah al-mubdi’ah wa asrar al-jamal, has been wrote about it, as follows:

1. Wife who is busy with them selves.

This kind of wife usually keep them selves away all her husband affair, and more consider to her own hobby. Basically, this wife is feel pleasant if she can just be alone,  and watch over all what she hears, sees, touches for own self. Perhaps this matter is a kind of be disease psychological error that required more handling.

…This wife is ignore her husband existence. because she usually doesn't ask for her husband suggestion,  or doesn't involve it in family affair…
2. Dominant wife

this wife is ignore her husband existence. because she usually doesn't ask for her husband suggestion,  or doesn't involve it in family affair. she always run all family affairs without looking at her husband opinion.

here, a husband will lose his spirit, because the one that he can do is just gives in for all families good  or ignore his own self existence. this kind of man usually eager to away from his own wife and trying to find any other woman that be fit with him. 

3. wife that love to lie.

Honesty is the biggest point in order to reach pleasure marriage, because it gives peaceful and happiness. Unfortunately, there are lot of woman that love to lie. They make it as hobby or as pretense for fear of something. But, what ever the reason is, lying and cheating are the most abhorred things by man. Although, sometimes a man an understand about why the woman do that, but normally, its acceptance is usually is goes along with an underestimating opinion.

4. Cruel and rude wife.

This kind of wife is so easy to give punishment to the husband, when he do a mistake.  With all her hostility characters, this wife will keep her husband to always in restlessness. Besides, this kind of wife wife will accustom to say rude sentences to her neighbors, friends,  and the family members. Cruel and rude wife, of course will evoke many problems for her husband, even for also the children. This character will create the unhappy feeling to her children and make a gap in both of them.
…The cruel and rude wife is so easy to give punishment to the husband, when he do a mistake.  with all her hostility characters, this wife will keep her husband to always in restlessness.…
 5. A stressing wife.

This woman is accustom to live in full of badness atmosphere of life. His household are full of bad behavior, fluctuation, hostility. Each command said by the husband is simply reject by the wife. So that, she often creates difficulty and bring a conflict with her husband. In such condition, the husband prioritize to away from home, or stay at home and do the same thing as his wife.

6. Passive wife.

This character of wife will let and gives in all business to the husband, so that the husband drives the entire family affairs. His role is only doing what her husband command. he always capitulate in all matter, as if he demands the husband to have more authorities without trying to show her existence toward her husband. where as he is alive pair for her husband.

7. A very obstinate wife.

This kind of wife is always opinionative. She keeps doing her stubborn character for a comfortable feeling because she think that people will always follow her opinion, although in wrong path. Despitefully, this action will create a special self satisfaction for her. For example, if the husband wishes for a kind of food, she is continual prepares another kind of food, even she actually does not like it. This kind of woman is seriously be "hated" by man
…A very obstinate wife is seriously be "hated" by man...
8. Wife in routine. 

This woman is usually consider that marriage is the end of her life, she hide her all ambitions and willing after being a wife. She command her self to cut it. That is why she considered if today is just the same as yesterday. For her, marriage is full of regular and monotonous activities. 

Those matters above are become the most abhorred characters by the husband. Therefore, the wife should rearrange their lifestyle and delete those characters in order to reach happiness and peacefulness household.